Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Hum Tum...Its getting too much now!!!

Well, the title would surely remind you of the famous comic characters from the movie 'Hum Tum' complaining about each other...those cartoons were really well made and the whole concept of using them as transitions in the movie was awesome...kudos to Kunal Kohli!!!

Alright, this post is not to highlight the creative brilliance of some movie director; its about this 'cold war' which has been going on between girls and guys for, god knows how many, long years now...

Guys face a lot of criticism with respect to being dishonest, being superficial, wagging their tail behind a girl and so on...The points, in general, made by girls are one part of the story...Don't u think the guys should also speak out their minds...may be girls will notice something they have never noticed before!!!

Following are some points from a guys perspective:

1) Yes, guys can make it without girls!!! But why shud they make it without girls if they can make it along with them? After all, 2 is a company!!! And what better company for a guy than a girl!!! Aren't guys and girls meant for each other???

2) Guys are labeled as being dishonest but do girls always tell the facts, in exactly the same way, as things happen? I dont think so, no one can!!! When a guy lies, its only for the sake of not hurting the relationship...and a guy will only lie if he does not trust a girl enough to tell her the truth...if the girl is genuinely loving and understanding, there's no reason for a guy to lie!!!

3) Its a fact, guys are physically stronger than girls...they will always be that way...just as guys are strong, girls are graceful...and every graceful thing needs to be taken special care of...thats what guys do, coz we can, and most importantly, coz we care!!!

To keep it simple, I would conclude this by asking both sides to accept each other with a broad mind...its no point in complaining about each other if we are going to eventually stay with one another...nothing is perfect, it will never be...and just coz of that, should we drop the idea of trying to make things perfect between a guy and a girl??? Lets accept each other as we are and capitalize on all the good things in us, leaving behind the bad ones...I guess, you are with me on this one!!!

Life is a wonderful journey, not just a final destination...so enjoy the journey, it makes life much more meaningful!!!